Posterous theme by Cory Watilo

Dog people are kindred spirits

OPENING DISCLAIMER

I have no idea if the story below is true or not, or where it even originated.  But this morning my cute Dad decided to forward the urban-myth-type email my way.  Being a dog-mom......of course I like the story.  For you other dog folks out there (or dog sympathizers) ...... I thought I would share - but without clogging all your email inboxes.

Yes it's mushy.......you can cope.

 

BEST DOG STORY EVER

They told me the big black Lab's name was Reggie , as I looked at him lying in 
his pen. The shelter was clean, no-kill, and the people really friendly. I'd 
only been in the area for six months, but everywhere I went in the small college 
town, people were welcoming and open.
Everyone waves when you pass them on the street.

But something was still missing as I attempted to settle in to my new life here, 
and I thought a dog couldn't hurt. Give me someone to talk to. And I had just 
seen Reggie 's advertisement on the local news. The shelter said they had 
received numerous calls right after, but they said the people who had come down 
to see him just didn't look like "Lab people," whatever that meant. They must've 
thought I did.

But at first, I thought the shelter had misjudged me in giving me Reggie and his 
things, which consisted of a dog pad, bag of toys almost all of which were brand 
new tennis balls, his dishes and a sealed letter from his previous owner.
See, Reggie and I didn't really hit it off when we got home. We struggled for 
two weeks (which is how long the shelter told me to give him to adjust to his 
new home). Maybe it was the fact that I was trying to adjust, too. Maybe we were 
too much alike.

I saw the sealed envelope. I had completely forgotten about that.
"Okay, Reggie ," I said out loud, "let's see if your previous owner has any 
advice."


To Whomever Gets My Dog:

Well, I can't say that I'm happy you're reading this, a letter I told the 
shelter could only be opened by Reggie 's new owner. I'm not even happy writing 
it. He knew something was different.

So let me tell you about my Lab in the hopes that it will help you bond with him 
and he with you.
First, he loves tennis balls. The more the merrier. Sometimes I think he's part 
squirrel, the way he hoards them. He usually always has two in his mouth, and he 
tries to get a third in there. Hasn't done it yet.
Doesn't matter where you throw them, he'll bound after them, so be careful. 
Don't do it by any roads.

Next, commands. Reggie knows the obvious ones ---"sit," "stay," "come,"
"heel."
He knows hand signals, too: He knows "ball" and "food" and "bone" and "treat" 
like nobody's business.

Feeding schedule: twice a day, regular store-bought stuff; the shelter has the 
brand.

He's up on his shots. Be forewarned: Reggie hates the vet. Good luck getting him 
in the car. I don't know how he knows when it's time to go to the vet, but he 
knows.

Finally, give him some time. It's only been Reggie and me for his whole life. 
He's gone everywhere with me, so please include him on your daily car rides if 
you can. He sits well in the backseat, and he doesn't bark or complain. He just 
loves to be around people, and me most especially.

And that's why I need to share one more bit of info with you...His name's not 
Reggie . He's a smart dog, he'll get used to it and will respond to it, of that 
I have no doubt. But I just couldn't bear to give them his real name. But if 
someone is reading this ... Well it means that his new owner should know his 
real name. His real name is "Tank.” Because, that is what I drive.

I told the shelter that they couldn't make " Reggie " available for adoption 
until they received word from my company commander. You see, my parents are 
gone, I have no siblings, no one I could've left Tank with ... And it was my 
only real request of the Army upon my deployment to Iraq, that they make one 
phone call to the shelter ... In the "event" ... To tell them that Tank could be 
put up for adoption.
Luckily, my CO is a dog-guy, too, and he knew where my platoon was headed. He 
said he'd do it personally. And if you're reading this, then he made good on his 
word.

Tank has been my family for the last six years, almost as long as the Army has 
been my family. And now I hope and pray that you make him part of your family, 
too, and that he will adjust and come to love you the same way he loved me.

If I have to give up Tank to keep those terrible people from coming to the US I 
am glad to have done so. He is my example of service and of love. I hope I 
honored him by my service to my country and comrades.

All right, that's enough. I deploy this evening and have to drop this letter off 
at the shelter. Maybe I'll peek in on him and see if he finally got that third 
tennis ball in his mouth.

Good luck with Tank. Give him a good home, and give him an extra kiss goodnight 
– every night – from me.
Thank you,
Paul Mallory
____________ _________ _________ _______

I folded the letter and slipped it back in the envelope. Sure, I had heard of 
Paul Mallory , everyone in town knew him, even new people like me. Local kid, 
killed in Iraq a few months ago and posthumously earning the Silver Star when he 
gave his life to save three buddies. Flags had been at half-mast all summer.

I leaned forward in my chair and rested my elbows on my knees, staring at the 
dog.
"Hey, Tank," I said quietly.
The dog's head whipped up, his ears cocked and his eyes bright.
" C'mere boy."

He was instantly on his feet, his nails clicking on the hardwood floor.
He sat in front of me, his head tilted, searching for the name he hadn't heard 
in months. "Tank," I whispered.
His tail swished.

I kept whispering his name, over and over, and each time, his ears lowered, his 
eyes softened, and his posture relaxed as a wave of contentment just seemed to 
flood him. I stroked his ears, rubbed his shoulders, buried my face into his 
scruff and hugged him.

"It's me now, Tank, just you and me. Your old pal gave you to me." Tank reached 
up and licked my cheek.

"So whatdaya say we play some ball?" His ears perked again.

"Yeah? Ball? You like that? Ball?"

Tank tore from my hands and disappeared into the next room.  And when he came 
back, he had three tennis balls in his mouth.

Gettin Social at Green Lake.....

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After last weeks harrowing trek with GoGo and the attack of the viscious pets, I was anxious to get the dogs back out and social.  Not to mention, with being on a health and fitness mission with the family, I was really wanting to get out and have everyone moving.  So yesterday we met up with the AdventureWeiner group  for a walk at Green Lake.  To be fair.....nearly all of these cuties are ahead of us on the adventure path, but we plan on catching up next time!

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Big thanks to Jessica Williams (blog) for organizing this walk every month and all the other meet-ups.  And super thanks for her PAWSOME pictures from today!

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The whole walk was 2.8 miles.  This is further than we have taken the dogs in any one trip.  We were sure that Pretzel would be fine and happy, but GoGo and his stamina (and willingness to be in unfamiliar territory) is still a wild card.  But both dogs kept it steady and moving and did TERRIFIC!  As a bonus, my daughter (who had balked at being out so early on a Saturday) asked if we could go to more of these!  WIN!!!

Our First Outdoor Adventure.........

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Today was the day we decided (ok, I decided) to kick off our new "hobby" of being adventurous and checking out the outdoors.

We picked an easy hiking trail close to home.  We knew it was going to be chilly and probably muddy, so we knew it wasn't going to be a long trek.  Additionally, we haven't yet reached the point of doing this often enough to justify the purchase of proper shoes etc.; so this was going to be REAL short.

Pretzel, we knew, would be terrific.  He loves to be out and about no matter how cold he gets, and he LOVES to walk.  Being somewhere new brought all sorts of new smells and sights, so he was happy as a fish in water.  GoGo, however, was an unknown.  Being blind, new places are tricky for him; and being outdoors without a predictable terrain can be unsettling.  However, he stuck close to where he could hear the cruchy steps as we walked and we didn't rush him.....and he did GREAT!  Even though he hit tilt with the mud in his toes and at one point decided to put on quite a protest.

I was so pleased and happy with this first trek.  My spirits were well boosted.....and then the event took a turn for the worst.  Another couple had decided to go for a walk with their dog - a bull terrier type named Cocoa.  However, they felt that they did not need to abide by the DOG ON LEASH rule for the park - and Cocoa had full and free reign of the trail. She came running full force at us and ground to a halt at my feet as I was standing in front of GoGo.  She sniffed at GoGo nicely from between my legs, and then instinct took over and she attacked him.  Luckily, GoGo had on a jacket that helped slow down the biting and grip Cocoa could get.....and we acted quick.  We each reached in to pull Cocoa back, Nic got GoGo and I pulled back on Cocoa's harness.  Needless to say....as the other couple came up running there was a lot of yelling about how the leash law is there for a reason.

We rushed the mile back to the car and got GoGo to the vet.  The skin was broken and he was bleeding, but it seems that the bite is superficial.  If Cocoa had taken even one shake or had a fraction of a second longer, it would have been not only worse - but possibly fatal.  However, it seems like we have some antibiotics to give and some watching to do......but that is all.

People......leash laws are there for a reason!  Even when dogs are sweet and nice and even well behaved, they still have a predatory instinct.  And as a useless human, there is no way to know when that instinct will kick in and who could end up hurt.  Follow the freakin rules!  Be smart and be safe!

I think that walks with GoGo will stick to our neighborhood and the well monitored trail by the lake (he didn't like the ice and squishy mud anyway).  However, Pretzel will continue to scale the mighty mountains!

First year NaNo!

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This year is my first attempt at participating in NaNo.  Also known as NaNoWriMo.....Or National Novel Writing Month.

The purpose of NaNo is to get people to take those story thoughts that pop up while in traffic, or while daydreaming in boring meetings, and get them written.  No one reviews or judges the books.....the point is only to have a first draft anyway.  But to be considered a "winner" of NaNo, you must have a completed (if unedited) story that is a minimum of 50,000 words - all written between November 1st and 30th.

This idea and event is something I have considered for quite some time.  The first time I had ever heard about it was 4 years ago when my very good friend Elin told me about giving it a whirl with her mother.  However, as intriguing as the endeavor sounded, the idea of writing no less than 1666 words a day for a whole month sounded overwhelming.  But this year I have decided to take the plunge.

Luckily.....I am not going into this madness alone.  I have some terrific friends who are also diving in, which means we have a support group ready to do!  I forsee Skype sessions to work through writers block ahead.....

As I said, NaNo starts on November 1.  You still have time to join.....and you could even dive in after the 1st.  NaNo is organized by The Office of Letters and Light....and they do other writing events during the year to get those creative juices flowing!  Check them out at: www.nanowrimo.org!

Today's Re-Play tune.....

You and I

~Lady GaGa

 

It's been a long time since I came around

Been a long time but I'm back in town

This time I'm not leaving without you

 

You taste like whiskey when you kiss me, oh

I'll give anything agian to be your baby doll

This time I'm not leaving without you

 

He said, "Sit back down where you belong

In the corner of my bar with your high heels on"

Sit back down on the couch where we

Made love for first time and you said to me

 

Something, something about this place

Something 'bout lonely nights and my lipstick on your face

Something, something about my cool Nebraska guy

Yeah, something about, baby, you and I

 

It's been two years since I let you go

I couldn't listen to a joke or rock 'n' roll

Muscle cars drove a truck right through my heart

 

On my birthday you sang me A Heart of Gold

With a guitar humming and no clothes

This time I'm not leavith without you, oh, oh, oh, oh

 

Sit back dwon where you belong

In the corner of my bar with your high heels on

Sit back down on the couch where we

Made love for first time and you said to me

 

Something, something about this place

Something 'bout lonely nights and my lipstick on your face

Something, something about my cool Nebraska guy

Yeah, something about, baby, you and I.

 

You and I, you, you and I

You, you and I, you, you and I, I

You and I, you, you and I

Oh yeah, I'd rather die without you and I

 

C'mon put your drinks up

 

We got a whole lot of money but we still pay rent

'Cause you can't buy a house in heaven

There's only three men that I'ma serve my whole live

It's my daddy and Nebraska and Jesus Christ

 

Something, something about the chase, six whole years

I'm a New York woman, born to run you down

So have my lipstick all over your face

Something, something about just knowing when it's right

 

So put your drinks up for Nebraska

For Nebraska, Nebraska I love you

 

You and I, you, you and I

Baby, I'd rather die without you and I

You and I, you, you and I

Nebraska I'd rather die witout you and I

 

It's been a long time since I cam around

Been a long time but I'm back in town

This time I'm not leaving without you

Daily Off Topic......It Feels Nice to be Nice

Today I had an experience that reminds me of the importance of being nice.

Let me set the stage, and then hit the highlights with some bullet points and quotes.  I was headed into work late on the bus; when I got to the transit center, I was met by a young girl who needed to get from where we were to the other side of Seattle. This young woman is 19, moved out of her parents house a week ago, and has only been into the city 2 times in her life to go to baseball games - but never on the bus.

  • She had 2 bus timetables - one for the bus to the city and one for the bus she needed to transfer to.  All of these buses run reduced, "express", schedules and stopped running about 20 minutes before we met up.
  • Her opening question to me: "Are you good at Seattle?"
  • She cannot read a timetable
  • She has ridden the bus 1 other time in her life.....a few days ago to go to school once and back.
  • We discussed options for finding alternate busses, but she did not understand the other possibilities.  I finally told her that if she still wanted to get through this journey today, she could ride my bus and I would help her find the connection.
  • On the bus, we reviewed the fact that we needed to find her connection, she would change busses, and then coming back she would have to do the same.  We reviewed this no less than 8 times.
  • Her: "This is so scary.  It's....like.....3 buses I have to take today." Me: "Honey, it's 4 busses.  The one we are on, your connection, and then two back." Her: "Four!  Wow, that is even worse!"
  • She has a couple of boxes still not unpacked from moving last week.  These boxes hold nothing but cheerleading trophies.
  • She thought it "sucked" that buses move so slow and stop so many times.  We were in the middle of a small town where the speed limit is 20.
  • She was slightly irritated that people would just stand on the bus.  This was after we were half way through the route and there were no more seats.
  • She giggled at someones back end being too close to her because this person was standing next to our seats.
  • Her: "I start college in two weeks." Me: "Cool.  How many credits are you taking." Her: "Just one class.  I really want to learn some self defense, so I am taking a Tai Chi class."
  • Her: "How is Bill Gates still rich just from inventing the internet?"

So to make the long part of the story short......we found her bus, I wrote down all her directions for getting home, and made sure she got on the bus she needed.

I may joke about how naive this young lady is.....but she was very sweet and I was genuinely concerned for her.  She clearly has no knowledge of the world; she was very proud of this adventure she had taken on all by herself.  And she received several calls from friends making sure she knew what she was doing.  This really was a whole new world for her in the big city.  It was a little moment where I had to make a call about what kind of person I am today.  It would have been easy to let her know that the bus she was looking for was done for the day and leave it at that.....but this was a chance for me to help someone.  Maybe it was the mom in me, but I could not just let her figure this out on her own.  There was a time for all of us when we just needed a little reassurance and practical teaching......someone to be a friend and show us a new way.  For the kindness that many people have shown me......I hopeI repaid that a little today.

Daily Off Topic......Today's Replay Tune

F**KIN Perfect

~Pink

 

Made a wrong turn
Once or twice
Dug my way out
Blood and fire
Bad decisions
That's alright
Welcome to my silly life

Mistreated
Misplaced
Misunderstood
Miss knowing it's all good
It didnt slow me down.

Mistaking
Always second guessing
Underestimating
Look I'm still around

Pretty, pretty please
Dont you ever, ever feel
Like you're less than
Fucking perfect

Pretty, pretty please
If you ever, ever feel
Like you're nothing
You're fucking perfect to me

You're so mean
When you talk
About yourself, you were wrong
Change the voices in your head

Make them like you instead
So complicated
Look how we all make it
Filled with so much hatred
Such a tired game

It's enough
I've done all I can think of
Chased down all my demons
I've seen you do the same

Oh

Pretty, pretty please
Dont you ever, ever feel
Like you're less than
Fucking perfect

Pretty, pretty please
If you ever, ever feel
Like you're nothing
You're fucking perfect to me

The whole worlds scared
So I swallow the fear
The only thing I should be drinking
Is an ice cold beer

So cool in line
And we try, try, try
But we try too hard
And it's a waste of my time

Done looking for the critics
Cause they're everywhere
They don't like my jeans
They don't get my hair

Exchange ourselves
And we do it all the time
Why do we do that?
Why do I do that?

Why do I do that?

Yeeeeaaaahhh
Oooooooh
Oh baby pretty please

Pretty, pretty please
Dont you ever feel
Like you're less than
Fucking perfect

Pretty, pretty please
If you ever, ever feel
Like you're nothing
You're fucking perfect to me

You're perfect, you're perfect

Pretty, pretty please
If you ever, ever feel
Like you're nothing
You're fucking perfect to me